2010 - the year of the dick.

I told myself i wasn't going to make any resolutions for this year. I Lied. this year my main resolution is to be a dick. Yes, that's right, to be a complete dick. But not the way you're thinking. I am going to be a dick in the way that needs to occur.



See, people like myself, and most people for that matter are nice people by nature. We don't want to start confrontations, or upset people, so we let things slide, we sacrifice and we compromise, and in the end, the other person, who is usually a dick to begin with, gets what they want, and our credibility is shot. Not anymore. You know the people i am talking about right? The people that take you for granted. The people that just want attention. When you ask them what is wrong, they sigh and say nothing, even though they're making it obvious that something is wrong. When they say "nothing", old justin would say "no..what's the matter? talk to me"....new justin will say "ok good. "



for example: an incident happened on new year's eve where a friend of mine was with a wasted friend whom i had never met. during one of my breaks (i was performing that night), i went over to say hey, and her friend decided it would be funny to spray silly string in my eye. I, being drunk decided to rip her a new asshole, and proceeded to talk shit to her into the microphone, yelling about "who does that" and just getting pissed off. The next day, i realized that I had over reacted, and I sent my friend a facebook message apologizing. I owned up to my mistake, and admitted it like a man. I waited over a week, no response. I would see status updates from her, and comments from her on other things, so i knew she was on facebook. So I decided that since 2010 is my year to stop being nice when niceness isn't needed, i sent her a second message saying that I hadn't received a reply, So i didn't care anymore. I was the bigger person, and if ignoring something means you can stay mad at me, then fuck you.

Seriously, i am DONE being nice when it's no longer needed. I am sick of being taken advantage of because i am nice. There are predators out there who KNOW when someone is overly nice, and know when someone will sacrifice their views in order to avoid a confrontation, and they use this to their advantage. It's sickening, and I'm done with it. These people need to be called out for what they really are. They need to be told that they don't deserve peoples' niceness, instead they need to be put in their place.

SO. 2010 will be the year of the Dick. If you see me being a dick, or I am a dick to you, before you get offended or angry, keep in mind that I am doing so because i tried being nice first, and you didn't get it.

Happy new year.